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How to create a perfect relationship?

We met Piotr at the beginning of the first year of undergraduate studies, in August last year we celebrated the first wedding anniversary of the so-called paper anniversary. We had our ups and downs, as it probably happens in every relationship, but in fact we can boast of a successful relationship.
How to create a perfect relationship?

It takes time to create the perfect relationship. The need for mutual understanding. You just have to feel good in your company.

Together at work, together at the university are you still running a blog ?!

When new people learn that we have been studying and working together for several years, the question arises, "How do you do it? Don't you get bored with being 24 / 24 ?! ”Well, no, because we take studies, work and the blog seriously and focus on our duties.
We always try to spend a lot of time together, we discuss the implementation of ideas for a blog. We make decisions together. We also study for exams together, because it's easier for us. We do a lot of things together, but to be honest I don't feel too much about Piotr, although sometimes we all need a moment for ourselves.

You need to talk in a relationship, not keep quiet. You cannot allow a situation where the conversation is based only on commands and short messages.

Then Piotr usually plays on the console Xbox Oneand I read a book or do something on the blog. Although we do something separately, we are still in the same room.
We have common passions, but we also have things that define us. For Piotr it is definitely football, for me reading books that I absorb in huge quantities (that's why I bought Pocket Lux Touch 2 readerwhich I am very happy with).
I never thought of spending time together as something bad. And that's probably the point - we just like to be together and do different things. Even those we don't do together.

Support your other half

Even if you think your second half's plan is totally crazy and you know it won't work, you are the one who needs to show understanding and support.
It is so with us that we both motivate ourselves. We often come up with different (sometimes completely unreal) ideas, but there is always support in the other person. And although it happens that we do not implement these ideas at all, and even forget about them - what counts is the feeling that you have a person who supports you in this.

Perfect relationship - does such a thing even exist ?!

At the beginning of our relationship, I took some things too seriously. It also happened that I was offended by anything. Fortunately, I'm over and today I'm trying to take things easy. Observing couples among our friends who are at various stages of the relationship, I notice some behaviors that characterize the subsequent stages of break-in.
In relationships that are just starting, you can see the ubiquitous jealousy (in our years it still occurs, but to a lesser extent, more reasonable), as well as frequent grinding about things that we, being at the current stage of the relationship, do not pay attention at all.
I believe that there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. Every relationship with another person has its better and worse moments. The most important thing is to cultivate the relationship all the time and not to fall into a routine. And above all talk. Talking is the key to everything.

Longer separation causes the pairs to move away from each other. Unfortunately, sometimes the realities do not allow for another solution.

I often see couples who gradually move away from each other. I never knew what the reason was, but over the years and observations I came to the conclusion that they lacked conversation. Over time, small lies also appeared that fueled more. For the most part, these couples have already split up, or are balancing on the border (reason, because there are children, which I think is not good. I think that when parents are not happy, the child is not).
So if you want your relationship to grow, and you, together with it, you need to talk to each other. I recommend taking some time after dinner, before going to bed or at any other time to talk to each other. About everything - how was your day, what did you achieve, what did you fail to do. Such a conversation will benefit both, because it is during the conversation that new ideas and solutions are born.

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14 Comments

  1. Avatar Wypaplani 22 November 2016 / 21: 38

    All relationships have their ups and downs and there are no perfect couples, but those that respect and support each other are getting closer to the ideal 😉

    • Avatar [Email protected] 22 November 2016 / 22: 24

      Each relationship is perfect in its own way. You have to support yourself and never doubt yourself and the other person.

  2. Avatar MamaMamie 22 November 2016 / 21: 16

    You are a beautiful couple. Personally, I think a husband must be a friend to create a PERFECT relationship 🙂

    • Avatar [Email protected] 22 November 2016 / 22: 23

      Thank you very much! I agree, I can't imagine not talking to my husband or hiding e.g. bought clothes.

  3. Avatar powder compact 24 May 2016 / 08: 29

    Oh yes, a relationship is hard work and the art of compromise, which is often difficult but possible to work out. What counts is willingness and the right approach.
    It's great that you get along so well 😀

  4. Avatar Anna M. Lukasiewicz 12 February 2016 / 18: 05

    Congratulations on your successful relationship. :) Can I ask how old are you?
    You are right with this conversation, recently on the plane I paid attention to the people in front of us - I thought they were apart, but still together, because the only thing they said to each other was the sluggish "Mietek, take something out of my backpack" :) It's not about that to talk all the time, but I still feel a little tired of myself or myself forcibly.

    My fiancé is a bit dumb, but I remember it only with other people, when I have to speak a little for us two: D We talk a lot to each other and I can confidently say that this is my best friend (how does it sound!). What I like most about him is that he always supports me, although my ideas change frequently, he always keeps his fingers crossed. :)

    • Avatar [Email protected] 12 February 2016 / 18: 49

      Thank you for your comment 🙂 Piotr and I have been together 6 years, and in August he hit us a year after the wedding 🙂

      How many times have I seen couples you write about. It's sad, because it's not only in a relationship that people can't talk to each other.

      Friendship is the beautiful basis of a relationship. I also congratulate you on the successful relationship; *

      Piotr sometimes talks too much, haha ​​😀

  5. Avatar Agata Kądziołka 12 February 2016 / 17: 04

    Great post 🙂 in July next year I am getting married and I can't wait to see how it will be with me 🙂

    • Avatar [Email protected] 12 February 2016 / 18: 04

      There are always a lot of nerves before marriage. We were arguing terribly then, but when the emotions subsided, everything returned to normal 🙂

      I wish you that your wedding was the most beautiful day of your life. Later you will remember him with a big smile and a tear in his eye.

  6. Avatar Ela Folwark 12 February 2016 / 16: 56

    My husband and I have been together for almost 9 years :) Also in that year in August we celebrated the first wedding anniversary in August 🙂 Good luck!

  7. Avatar Beauty Land 12 February 2016 / 15: 59

    Conversations and honesty in a relationship are the most important, and friendship.

  8. Avatar Mrs.Rose 12 February 2016 / 15: 10

    A beautiful pair of you and well written, it is true that in a relationship you need time and mutual understanding.

    • Avatar [Email protected] 12 February 2016 / 15: 13

      Thank you darling! <3 We try to cultivate our relationship every day. Of course, as in any relationship, there are moments of anger, but the most important thing is to feel good together and base the relationship on friendship 🙂 I send hugs!

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